A fun read!  This is the first book by Mr. Ansari, a stand-up comedian best known for playing Tom Haverford, a hopeless Lothario and jauntily deluded entrepreneur, on the late, great television show “Parks and Recreation.” He decided to write it after he brought up the Tanya debacle in a comedy routine and got to thinking, he says, about the universality of his experience, about “how and why the whole culture of finding love and a mate has radically changed” in the modern era