Should you pack your bags and leave him forever? Or should you bid on this Queen-size Sleep Number 5000 Bed Set?  Choose the latter, and then he can adjust his side of the bed to match his support and firmness preferences.  And you can adjust your side of the bed to match your own preferences.  This item includes a queen-size Sleep Number 5000 mattress and foundation.  It even includes UPS shipping.  "What's your sleep number?"