A guide to negotiating household duties and managing cleaning from a part-time stay-home dad, who, along with lots of cleaning tips, nonetheless espouses a "good enough" approach:

"Spotless perfection can’t be achieved in a house where kids live, and even if it can, it’s not worth it.  When your children grow up, they’ll remember with fondness that you read to them, helped them with their math homework, and had time to play with them, rather than that the beds were made with hospital corners or the laundry folded with military precision.

Author David Bowers is a current preschool dad. For a recent reveiw of the book go to:
http://www.bookdads.com/dads-own-housekeeping-book/