Miss no time…you can have your own magical, mad Victorian tea party like “Alice in Wonderland” in the exquisite country home of Charo and Lawrence Abrams.  What a perfect way to spend a birthday (or “unbirthday”) on a beautiful summer afternoon surrounded by friends --amid flowers and art; silver and lace, wearing floppy flowered hats. You’ll relish delicious tea sandwiches, scones, cup cakes, and tarts, and of course “a spot of tea or a dash of coffee,” catered by R.S.V.P., one of Washington’s premier food caterers.  Miss no time…miss no time…